It doesn’t blow your mind too that all of this could change in the blink of an eye? That one day, you could wake up and decide you are done taking less than what you know you deserve. That’s not talking about others’ actions towards you; that’s strictly about the actions you take for yourself.… Read more

I can’t afford to keep pouring from an empty cup. This is no sort of plea for help or anything stupid like that. I’m not trying to play the victim game. I just simply can’t keep doing for everyone else when I know it wouldn’t even be close to reciprocated. Why would I? I need… Read more

No te hagas pendejo. If you wanted to do it, you would have done it. There’s a reason you’re okay with being comfortable even though every other thing out of your mouth is talking about growth and change. You have a library of books for self-help, yet that’s about the only self-help you got. That’s… Read more

You Have to Learn Shut that inner bitch up. Sometimes things readily come at you, and the first thing you do is question them. When something positive happens, you might even begin to wonder what you’ve done to deserve this. Fuck all that. Celebrate your work. I’m sure you’ve messed up plenty of times, as… Read more

Maybe it’s too much going on in my head. I don’t know where it all started, but if I had a genie I know that I’d still be the five year old wishing mom and dad would stop fighting. You could replace the parents fighting thing with just about anything, but maybe you could empathize… Read more

Holes We all have insecurities. Some are stronger than others. Some hide the insecurities better than the next person. The point is, we all have them, no matter how big or how small. How one chooses to deal with them is on themselves. There are times where the people around us magnify these insecurities, and… Read more