Short answer? Probably not.
I’m way too complicated to be understood completely. I change on the daily and I’m not the same person I was a year ago, shoot, I’m not even the same person that I was last week. When I say I’m not the same I don’t mean that I’m not trying to be consistent with some key positive traits, I mean I’m trying to evolve and keep getting my mind stimulated for constant improvement.
I think that if you ever reach a certain point where your partner knows everything about you, that’s the point where you have to change. I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again, but there’s a couple that’s been together for over 60 years and the husband always talks about how he’s fallen in love with the same woman more than 12 times. At the end of the day, the reason for that I think that if you ever reach a certain point where your partner knows everything about you, that’s the point where you have to change.At the end of the day, the reason for that is because his wife has evolved multiple times over that span of 60 years.
A wise man once said that once you stop changing, you’re dead. You should constantly be looking for ways to change, so no, I don’t think you could ever know everything about someone. Could you know some key details that maybe your partner has never shared? Sure. There will still be that thought that your partner could feel at some point that could change just about everything when it comes to your perception of your person.
I think at the end of the day that’s okay too, because I don’t ever want to be so studied by my partner to the point where they know everything. I want to feel comfortable enough to want to share just about everything with her, but I don’t want to feel like some history project that you’re studying about. At the end of the day, I don’t think it’s ever going to be one of those situations where you could know everything about someone. If that moment ever comes, I think it’s best to run and change. Quickly.